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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Thu, 31 May 2012 10:49:45 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Touchstone Coaching Blog - David Taylor-Klaus - focus|clarity|action™</title><link>http://www.touchstonecoaching.com/dtk-blog/</link><description></description><lastBuildDate>Wed, 30 May 2012 16:38:45 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright>Touchstone Coaching 2008-2011</copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><itunes:author>David Taylor-Klaus CPCC ACC - Touchstone Coaching</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Touchstone Coaching</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>Leading,on,Purpose,Life,Coach,Executive,Coach,Entrepreneurship,Coach,Team,Coach,Intentionality</itunes:keywords><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Touchstone Coaching, LLC</itunes:name><itunes:email>david@TouchstoneCoaching.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="http://www.touchstonecoaching.com/storage/bodycontent_images/_STK6779%20TSC.jpg"/><itunes:category text="Business"/><item><title>Make Every Mistake A New One</title><category>Failure</category><category>Forward</category><category>Forward the Action</category><category>Learning</category><category>Mistake</category><dc:creator>David Taylor-Klaus</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 May 2012 16:32:41 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.touchstonecoaching.com/dtk-blog/2012/5/30/make-every-mistake-a-new-one.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">340867:11938567:16497985</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span><em><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>"Failure is among life's least pleasant experiences, but nothing else is as essential to success."<br /></em></span><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>-- Marisa Taylor in an&nbsp;<em>Ode Magazine</em>&nbsp;article</p>
<p>We're trained from an early age to celebrate success, yet we have no training, no cultural norm, around celebrating failure. In fact, we push towards a zero-tolerance for failure. "You got 98 on the test? What happened to the other 2 points?"&nbsp;When we dismiss our failures, we cut ourselves off from rich learning.</p>
<p>I had a job, once, where I was miserable. I had lost respect for the CEO and the way the company was run. Our values were out of sync. For all intents and purposes, the job was an utter failure ... but I stayed for the paycheck.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Looking back, I learned a lot from it. That job informed the hiring pratice and the client selection process when I co-founded a new business. &nbsp;My partner and I&nbsp;committed to hiring people and working with clients whose values matched our values and those of our company. And, yes, there were some "learning-rich" failures there, too. We failed. We learned. We adjusted. We moved forward.</p>
<p><span>Newsweek Magazine commits the last page of every issue to a celebration of failure with a feature called, "</span><em>My Favorite Mistake</em><span>." Icons share a pivotal failure and the learning gleened from it: Sara Blakely's "fanny" faux pas on live BBC interview, Dennis Quaid's cocaine addiction,&nbsp;Muhammad Yunus's mistake that cost him the bank he founded.</span></p>
<p><span>My invitation to you is to celebrate&nbsp;</span><em>every</em><span>&nbsp;failure by acknowledging the learning you are taking from it. And while you're at it,&nbsp;</span><em>make every mistake a new one</em><span>!</span></p>
<p><span>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Fail. Learn.&nbsp;</span><em>Move Forward</em><span>.</span></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.touchstonecoaching.com/dtk-blog/rss-comments-entry-16497985.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>I DARE you ...</title><category>Bigger Game</category><category>Enough</category><category>Leadership</category><category>Living</category><category>Meaning</category><category>Obama</category><category>Personal Challenge</category><category>Steve Jobs</category><category>Vision</category><dc:creator>David Taylor-Klaus</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 15:11:01 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.touchstonecoaching.com/dtk-blog/2011/10/6/i-dare-you.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">340867:11938567:13102088</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>When I heard about the passing of Steve Jobs last night, I posted the following:</p>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 30px;">"Through his vision and his inspiration he touched the lives of billions.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 30px;">He shifted consciousness. With the passing of Steve Jobs, our world</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 30px;">has lost some of it's magic."</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste">In part of his official statement last night, President Obama captured the essence of the lesson:</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 30px;">Steve [Jobs] was among the greatest of American innovators -</div>
<div style="padding-left: 40px;"><em>BRAVE ENOUGH</em>&nbsp;to think differently,</div>
<div style="padding-left: 50px;"><em>BOLD ENOUGH</em>&nbsp;to believe he could change the world and</div>
<div style="padding-left: 60px;"><em>TALENTED ENOUGH</em>&nbsp;to do it."</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">&nbsp;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">And as I sat with my daughters listening to the coverage, reading the stories, reliving the memories, I heard my my own comment from earlier in the day echoing in my head:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">&nbsp;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 30px;">"No vision too great. No detail too small."</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste"><strong>So I offer to all of us ...</strong></div>
<div><strong><br /></strong></div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 20px;">Dare to have an HUGE vision.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 30px;">Make it impossibly large.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 40px;">Then dare to make it BIGGER.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 50px;">Dare to want it.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 60px;">Dare to believe it is possible.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="padding-left: 70px;">Dare to know it will BE.</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste">Dare to know that we are each enough!</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Dare to know that you are&nbsp;<em>MORE THAN ENOUGH</em>!</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste"><em><strong>I DARE you.</strong></em></div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.touchstonecoaching.com/dtk-blog/rss-comments-entry-13102088.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>
